Defining Leadership And Creating Your Unique Purpose

Defining what leadership constitutes is one of the most frustratingly difficult subjects to articulate. This is because leadership is a role which differs depending on the perspective of the definer. Thus there are many ways to express the components or description of the definition of leadership. Warwick University has published twenty academic views which attempt the difficult task of defining leadership. While Lolly Daskal showcases 100 answers to the question “What is leadership?”
There are almost as many different definitions of leadership as there are persons who have attempted to define the concept.
(Bass, 1981)
Leadership is like beauty, in the eye of the beholder. Defining leadership includes influencing followers by using skills, characteristics behaviours, influences and teamwork/team building. The simplest definition of leadership is that it is
The art of motivating a group of people to act towards achieving a common goal.
From my own experience, the following are the chief descriptors that spring to mind when defining leadership.
When I first began writing and coaching around leadership, it dawned on me that my journey which had required me to learn through considerable challenges had informed a knowing about defining leadership. This knowledge gave me inner confidence which meant I was not daunted by many of the leadership challenges I and others faced. When I began articulating what defined leadership for me, many others immediately recognised the principles. I realised this was because my leadership model was based on universal wisdom. This means on a level, everyone, recognises the truth in those principles. So my model was and is a means of defining leadership.
My leadership model is based on four states
When a leader is connected to their higher self, it enables them to get out of their way. This creates the condition to practice real discernment. Discernment is the state in which you are making decisions from your higher self. Your ego is out of the way and therefore you can deal with challenges from a wider, balanced and enlightened point of view.
Difference always needs to be respected and honoured. It’s also true what a leader focuses on will grow and flourish. To that end concentrating on our commonalities is essential. Focusing on those factors we have in common will enable our shared experience to grow. The fact is quantum science is showing we are all connected and we have more in common than not. When a leader comes from that premise then they are inspired and inspiring.
Self-aware leaders understand learning is a lifelong endeavour. They understand they need to develop their visionary, thinking and emotional intelligence skills. They appreciate that the information which they make their decisions with is ever-expanding both internally and externally. Self-aware leaders understand their impact on others and so reflection is innate.
Great leaders touch the inner spirit of their followers and team and so they are inspiring. They understand how to create an environment which brings out the best in others. They understand the laws of creation from within and so they foster enthusiasm, motivation and commitment.
One of the reasons it’s so difficult to describe the definition of leadership is that there are numerous levels of leadership. The British Councils Report, Global Definitions of Leadership and Theories of Leadership, discusses leadership roles in a global context as well as a political context. The report looks at many different aspects involved in defining leadership and one of those aspects is about identifying leadership roles.
Leadership roles matter because the scope and breadth of such roles mean there are significant differences in the definition of leadership depending on each situation. There is a vast difference between the leadership requirements of the President of the USA, the leader of the free world, and the leader of a small business. And so there are subtle differences in the leadership role depending on at which level the leader is operating. Some of the more common roles are:
Leading an institution or a cause which encompasses people and societies across the world. This role has to embrace a myriad of cultures with a purpose and mission which has worldwide meaning.
As above but confined to a continent, country or specific geographical area where cultures may be varied and purpose and mission are specific to that region.
This leader’s purpose and mission unite people in a common cause. It might be to improve lives or create transformational change and it can be linked to activism. This leader is usually seeking change for the good of others.
Leading on a manifesto which sets out several promises made to the electorate. Steering voters and affiliates to a set of policies, laws and infrastructures which serve to govern and make decisions about how we live our lives.
Leading an organisation which provides a service or product to consumers or customers. Their purpose or mission is specific to their company’s offer to customers. These roles both lead to outputs as well as provide people with leadership for their employees.
The main functions of leadership are centred around change or transformation. While the function of some leaders might be to provide the components to sustain products or services or maintain a way of living over a longer period. Whatever the main steer there are many functions leadership fulfils, whether directly or indirectly. These functions provide another aspect in our quest to draw out a definition of leadership. Leaders may provide or source the expertise to carry out these functions. Some of the most common functions of leadership are:
We are all unique and no matter what the topic or entity we cannot help but see things differently. That’s not to say we don’t see commonalities but we may never completely agree. Likewise with the topic of leadership. Every person has a different perspective when defining leadership. This is largely down to our different personality types, the beliefs we have adopted and the myriad of our experiences. Because of where we are in our lives we all have different needs. We all have a different combination of what works well for us in our relationships with others. All these differences mean we each have a unique perception of what constitutes leadership.
I once took a class where the students considered the challenges leaders of today faced and described what they thought was needed from leaders both in business and world leaders to navigate these challenges. The definition of leadership for those students included value-based leadership, people-centred leadership and collective consciousness awareness. There was nothing about profits, results or business outcomes. That’s not to say those elements can’t be important in the right situation, just not the main priorities.
In January 2017 NHS Wales asked their leaders what leadership meant for them. A sample of their replies makes interesting reading here:
This lengthy article started in our LinkedIn group when we asked members what leadership meant to them. With over 200 entries laid out in alphabetical order, it’s a comprehensive download of what leadership means from a host of random people from around the world.
Now you have a clear idea of the definition of leadership, you can think about your purpose. If you are a leader defining leadership to understand your role, function or expertise it is a complex and perplexing maze to work through. You can’t be all things to all people in all situations. But that means you have to reach clarity about what leadership means for you, right now, in your current situation. The way to do this is to define your purpose. Here are 5 steps which help you get to the heart of the definition of leadership for you, by understanding your purpose.
Delving into the “why” of your organisation or cause is essential
Simon Sinek’s great book Start With Why describes “The Golden Circle” This theory describes a sequence of thinking which makes a business or cause get to the heart of its purpose. In this circle, Sinek contends that every business understands what they do, they are likely to understand how what they do adds value or is unique. Sinek contends though, what is usually missing is the why of what they do. He also pushes the theory people “don’t buy into what you do, they buy into why you do what you do”.
When I was leading a high-profile team, I asked what our purpose was. At first, the depth of understanding was true but didn’t get to the ultimate meaning which resonated. So the first reply to the question about the purpose of our team was to provide a level of service to the customer. Commendable and one level of why. However, after going into more depth, we found that as a team our real purpose was to make a significant difference, by adding valuable expertise. So step one in defining your purpose is to drill down until you find a purpose which finds an emotional connection. Or in other words, a purpose which is meaningful for both you and others.
I still have a dream, a dream deeply rooted in the American dream – one day this nation will rise up and live up to its creed, “We hold these truths to be self evident: that all men are created equal.” I have a dream …
—Martin Luther King Jr. (1963)
Defining the impact of what you want to achieve enables you to clearly state what the outcomes will be and what that means. Martin Luther King Jr in his famous “I Have a Dream speech”. didn’t just talk about eradicating discrimination and eliminating racism. He set out his vision and dream and what that would mean in the end, that all men are created equal. Likewise, business leaders need to articulate the impact their product or service will have on their customers. The end aim should not be producing the product or service, it must be the difference that the product will make. So the second step in defining your purpose must be about articulating the impact.
Understanding what is important to you is at the heart of defining leadership purpose. This is about identifying your values and worldview. If your why and impact are centred around money and/or fame and those are important values in your life, then fine. However, if your heart is really about family, friends and people, then your setting why and impact around money and fame might not be outcomes which will sustain your interest in the long term.
Don’t just use words or groups to articulate what is important to you, turn them into statements. Once you have statements you can assess how well you are living your values and priorities. So one value might be your children. However, that in itself is just a concept. By turning it into a statement, or series of statements you can gauge your success or not. For example: “I will be at home every night before my children go to bed to read them a nighttime story”. You know you are living your values to the extent to which that statement is true.
Your personality often likes to feel safe and anchored. Yet to be a leader you must feel consistent and effective both in and out of your comfort zone. To make sure your self doesn’t get in the way of your leadership vocation, and to discover your leadership purpose, you need to understand yourself.
There are many facets to your personality and a myriad of tools which help you analyse yourself. However, in my view, there are several components which make up your unique self. At a very basic level, understanding these components help you to become self-aware:
You need to be emotionally invested in what you want to do but not to the extent that it is a misplaced passion. Gregg Braden’s groundbreaking book: Resilience of the Heart discusses the heart-mind connection. When making decisions with your heart and mind, you feel mentally and emotionally at peace. This peace allows you to access your intuition and is the conduit to your subconscious mind.
Wisdom comes from mindfulness and bringing this practice to the leadership role is essential. Emotional as well as intellectual intelligence can be achieved. However, developing mindfulness is like building up muscle: it takes effort and practice.
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